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Charlie

I just wrote a two page “short” on the death of a character from a book I have not yet published. I’m working on a sequel to said book/trilogy, and saw Charlie’s death. I realized I had to write it, though it may never end up in a book.

It takes place many years after the end of the sequel, and I haven’t seen the years between the death and the end of the book. But it had to be written. Natalia and Charlie needed that.

I’m trying to decide if I want to publish it here.

Maybe someday, but not today. I think it needs to stew some more. I think Charlie and Natalia need the time to themselves, to remember their time together and to mourn with those around them.
This isn’t the first time I’ve killed off a main character, but this is the first time that I’ve written the death of a character in such a fashion: meaning not as a part of a book. I liked taking the glimpse of that part of their lives and mourning with Natalia.

Charlie is old. He’s lived a long life, has a few kids and a few grandkids. His wife is still around and he’s dying in his home, in his bed. It could have ended differently. It could have been in battle, but it wasn’t. I wrote of him dying in the trilogy, protecting Natalia while she is still human, and didn’t like it. I wanted him to be around. And he is.

Charlie is one of my favorite characters in The Grey House. He’s not an easy person, being a werewolf, but he makes his life worth living and his death is not easy for those around him. He is kind, protective and he is very human, for an unpredictable werewolf. He has an easy grin and loves his wife and children, and he loves Natalia. And in the end, I think everyone loves him too, including Vincent Grey who gives Charlie nothing but hell for loving Natalia.

Enter the Maze – Origins

Enter the Maze is still being edited/read through. It’s a long process, and I am thankful to the women who are helping me out. I wanted to give you something to tease you and hopefully continue your interest for the book.

In the introduction for this book, I included how I was inspired to write them and what the story is about. There are a few stories and poems included in the book that were inspired by specific people, and in one case an animal. I’ve decided to let you know what those stories are and who inspired, them, but not why. For the why, you’ll have to wait for the book and purchase it when it comes out. Can’t give away all my secrets. 😉

Here are the works and their inspirations:

Beautiful world – Michael McMahan
Riding the Maze – Neil Gaiman (Yep, the awesome writer)
Petocalypse – Hazel (One of my cats)
Follow the Lights – Krista Jean
Naked Chocolate Torte – Daniel, from Chocolat by Daniel
A Snowflake for Mia – Irene and McKenna

Thanks for your interest and I’ll keep you informed on when the book is available on Amazon. Happy reading!

Enter the Maze: Contents

Hello!

Below are the titles of the works included in Enter the Maze. If there is an asterisk before the name, that means it has been published on my WordPress page. If you haven’t read the works yet, check it out! If you have, then you know what to expect.

I thought about adding the links to the titles below, but realized that I like the idea of people searching out the stories and finding all the work that is already posted on my WordPress page, instead of leading you to the exact story only.

Without further ado, the contents of “Enter the Maze; Shorts, poems and thoughts”

* Beautiful World
Riding the Maze
* Magic Bookstore
* The Virus
* Theraphose: an Origin
* Secret Fog
* Liquid Warm
The Usual
Lost & Found
* Plant Life
Abstract Thoughts
Hungry
* Seven
* Petocalypse
Pixie
* Follow the Lights
* Old Cross Bridge
Dragon Bike
* Naked Chocolate Torte
A Snowflake for Mia

Enter the Maze

Hello! My new book, Enter the Maze, Shorts, Poems and Thoughts, is in its final edit. I ordered a proof and the book is beautiful! In the next few days, I will be posting the titles to the works included here, in the order they will appear in the book. Some of the included works can be found here on my wordpress page, and some are brand new. I hope you enjoy the book and if you’re curious about what my writing is all about, I do have a book already for sale on Amazon called The Elven Prince. You can find the paperback here and the Kindle version here.

I wish I could say the book will be available for sale before the holidays, but it’s not going to work out that way. It will be available soon, though and I am very excited to share it with you.

Stay tuned for more information, and have a happy holidays!

“No” should be enough

A coworker of mine has a tattoo (one of many) on her arm, indicating she is part of “Straight Edge Culture”.

If you’re interested Wikipedia says: “Straight edge (sometimes abbreviated sXe) is a subculture of hardcore punk whose adherents refrain from using alcohol, tobacco and other recreational drugs, in a reaction to the excesses of punk subculture.” Check out more here.

She took a pledge to never do drugs or alcohol. I applaud her decision, but it bothered me. Why take a pledge? Why not just live your life as you want, without the actual pledge? I didn’t ask her, as it really isn’t any of my business, but also because I didn’t want her to take it wrong. I’m all for people leading the life they want, as long as they don’t hurt anyone else. But it didn’t seem necessary to take a pledge.

Then I remembered something that happened to me a while back. My late husband and some friends were filming in downtown Rockford, IL. It was a bright sunny day and I joined them after they finished. Jason warned me that one of the women was a bit of a drinker and that she would probably ask me to have a drink.

I didn’t have a problem with this. I don’t drink much, and know how to say no and stick with no. Peer pressure is never an issue. If I seem to change my mind, it’s because I was on the fence to begin with. I wasn’t concerned about someone trying to pressure me into drinking.

So I went to hang out and as soon as the particular girl could, she started to drink straight from the bottle. She shared with everyone, and when it came to me she asked if I wanted a drink. I said ‘no’. To me, that was the end of it. For her, it wasn’t. She kept asking and asking, even though I gave a firm ‘no’ each time. Finally, Jason told her I didn’t drink and she stopped.

Though I appreciate that he stopped her, I didn’t think an explanation was necessary. And it shouldn’t have been. “No” should be enough. Neither I, nor anyone else, should have to explain why we don’t want to drink or do drugs. “No” means no, but in today’s society, we have learned that if we push, then we may get a different answer.

It goes from the benign, “Gum?” “No, thanks.” “Oh come on, you want gum! Everyone likes gum!”

To the malignant, “Sex?” “No. Thanks.” “Oh come one! You want sex! Everyone likes sex!”

We live in a culture that denies the answer ‘no’ or at the very least demands an explanation. If someone says ‘no’ we should learn to say ‘ok!’ and move on. There is no reason to push someone to do something they don’t want to do, even if it is as benign as asking someone if they want some gum. No means no. Stop it.

My conclusion on the pledge: society demands an answer other than ‘no’.

We want an explanation. The pledge is the explanation. I believe an explanation shouldn’t be necessary.

“No” should be enough.

Cover Art for Enter the Maze

Hello!

Soon, I will be offering a short story collection on Amazon. The cover art was done by a friend of mine, Jenny Mathews. You can find her art here. She is awesome! Here’s the beautiful cover.

Visit her page. Check out her art, and keep watching here for more details on Enter the Maze!

Enter the Maze

I am going to publish a book of shorts soon. The stories and poems are picked, the cover art is done (and beautiful!), I have the back of the book written up (usually difficult for me) but the editing is not done.

I didn’t know what I wanted as a cover, but asked a friend if she would be willing to take a stab at it. She read the book and came up with a good idea. It sparked the back of the book information and title, and for that I’m grateful. I have never been good with what should go on the back of the book. But it’s done. The stories are done and the art is done. I’m pretty dang happy!

In a few days, I will post the cover art and the back of the book information. The book, which is entitled Enter the Maze will be available through Amazon (print date to be determined), as is my first book, The Elven Prince. Find that here.

Happy reading!

Widowhood is confusing

Hi. My name is Cat Stark and I’m a widow. But if you know me, or have read my blog, you know this already. What you may not know is that I love another man now, and it hurts to say that. It hurts because it feels like a betrayal. I know it isn’t. Jason is gone and though I loved him so very much, loving Paul does not make me love Jason any less. It does not invalidate what I feel for Jason, but it does confuse things very much in my heart and in my head.

There are times I think I shouldn’t be with anyone, but that would be foolish. As I have written (at least to myself) before, I have too much love to give and I am not going to live out the rest of my life alone just because I loved another who has passed on.

It is ok to love someone else. It is ok to love two people. It hurts and it is confusing, but god damn it, isn’t most of life that way?

If you are a widow or widower, please don’t be afraid to love another. It does happen. We are not meant to share our lives with only one person. If that were true, we wouldn’t have friends or family, we would live in a vacuum. Reach out. Love and be loved. It may hurt like hell, and your emotions my make you think you are going through hell, but if you have found another after your loved one dies, that is not hell, that is living, and that is love.

I love two men. Jason ssg, my late husband, who I was with for 19 years 2 months. And Paul, who I have been dating almost a year. And that is ok.

June 26, 2015 United States is on the Right Side of History

I’m sure there will be a ton of blogs out there today, both for and against the Supreme Court’s ruling stating that homosexuals are allowed to marry. I am one of the many people that believe – nay – that KNOW this is the right ruling. Marriage is not a privilege for the few; it is a right of all. There have been tears in my eyes all morning because of this ruling. I am joyful for my friends who can now legally share their lives with the person they love. I am so proud that the United Sates of America has now ruled that everyone has the right to be married.

One of the reasons I am happy is due to a sad situation that happened on May 19, 2013. That’s the day my husband of 19 years died.

When Jason died, because I was his wife, even though we didn’t have the same last name, the morticians that came to retrieve this body didn’t bother asking me for identification. I didn’t have to prove I was his wife, or that I had a right to make decisions on the care of his remains. I didn’t have any hassle in how to help him along his last journey and no one looked at me oddly for calling him my husband.

There are fewer things worse than losing a spouse. I would have to imagine that loosing a person you consider your spouse, but who is not seen as a legal spouse in the eyes of the law, would be a much harder battle.

Imagine loosing your spouse and having: no rights in hospitals, especially if the family hates you or does not accept you, or does not know about you. No rights in how their remains are taken care of. No rights in being at the funeral (again if the family doesn’t acknowledge you). No rights to how their belongings are taken care of. No rights (possibly) in the lives of the children. (I’ve read stories.) Those are not gone now, they still exist if a couple is not legally married or common law married, but they are sure as heck getting closer to being gone. If homosexuals can be married, their lives will not be easier, because there are still awful people out there, but in the eyes of the law, they now have a lot more rights. And that is an amazing thing.

New things…

I’m putting a book of short stories and poems together. Hoping for a 2015 release, but not entirely sure yet. A lot of the stories and poems were released here first (on my wordpress page), but not all. And the longest story, Riding the Maze, is unreleased.
Working title: Riding the Maze and other shorts.
Will keep you updated as time goes on!